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Ok So It becomes obvious to some one who visits here once in a while or semi often that some…ok maybe a few of us who frequent this particular establishemnt enjoy a little bit of the how shall we say….”cough cough” …. that being said I ask whats your fav way of being tied / or perhaps tying ppl up ……..
Submitted for approval by the midnight society I present best / favorite restraint device
Improvising is the only way to go, One does not nessicerily start out with the intention of tieing up the person your with, so you may have to use what is handy say like i dont know, her thong. that way when all is said and done and she asks how the hell you pulled that off and she has this oh you dirty little bastard look on her face it will all be worth it. Trust me I know. That being said it also might just convince her to come back for more…. 😈
Improvisation isn’t a bad idea at all. Especially when you break said item, and the look of shock on the partner’s face is enough to make one crack with laughter. …. Until they brign out their other toy… And the look on yours is priceless.
I`d go for the belt .. simply because it is the one item whitch you`re almost certian to have handy on a night out 😉
Unless you`re a cop .. then you have hancuffs..
or unless you`re Viscious-Vixen, then you probable have all of the above items stashed away in your purse. 8)
Hmm a thong is brilliant, for last minute thinking. Good job. 😉
I would also have to agree with belts being great, as they are readily available and feel oh so good when used right …… *happy sigh*
Myself, I am a major fan of Kinbaku, so I have to say rope. Not like rope that you tie something to the top of your car with, but the good kind that doesn’t break and is smooth as silk. Washes well too, stains rarely stick. 😈 And as for the purse thing (if necromancerza isn’t too off base about you, Vixen dear, and I don’t think he is…. yet another reason I have much respect for you :wink:) that is always a good idea… keep a small something on hand, ‘sides the usual batch of protection (yes ladies, men don’t always carry them LOL).
I think Kinbaku is not just erotic but beautiful, and as a consisseur I appreciate both those would will allow it, and those who are proficient in it…. and for those who aren’t proficient or feel it takes too much time, with the proper knots (i.e. not just a basic square knot! Do a good tying job!) there aren’t many places one can be where you can’t find some way to secure the person you’re with….. even if it’s just a good ol’ fashioned hog-tie. *wicked grin* There is something about rope that makes people feel trapped, as in there isn’t much of a chance of getting away and they’re (quite literally) screwed.
Ahhhh happy thoughts….. 😈
@Lady_DeMornay wrote:
Not like rope that you tie something to the top of your car with, but the good kind that doesn’t break and is smooth as silk.
I dont know about seattle, but where i’m coming from we guys use the silky stuff for those who deserve it: the cars 8)
@maestro wrote:
I dont know about seattle, but where i’m coming from we guys use the silky stuff for those who deserve it: the cars 8)
😯 I am so sorry, Maestro… I didn’t realize you had to resort to tying up your car….. you see, here in Seattle we play with people, not cars. I can see where you might be confused, however people are the warm ones that you can…. you know… do naughty stuff with. Cars are those things we drive around in, and can do naughty things inside, on top or even underneath, but not with. Yes, both can be driven hard and fast, but only one of the two are any fun in bed.
I shall leave you to your silken-rope-tied cars, I shall continue playing with people. Send porncat my condolances… 😆
PS. My car says it’s not into BDSM, it’s not that kind of car.
here in Seattle we play with people, not cars.
people are the warm ones
Obviously you don’t know much in Seattle ….
And people are not the warm ones
hahah!
common sense tells every guy that skin can heal but scratches in the paint are forever, so find me only one who would apply the scratchy rope to the car in the event that transportation and female fixation must happen at the same time.
Sometimes you women just dont see your place in our ranking system hun – of course we care most for the wellbeing of the item we plan to keep the longest 😉
ok, yeah you all are nuts….but w/e…..i would never have thought that my own underwear could be used agaisnt me……lol…..and although improvising is very good, i must say that metal handcuffs are the best…..they generally keep the guy/girl to stay there and not ruin your fun with…*cough* whatever you are doing to them……;)
@Lady_DeMornay wrote:
@maestro wrote:
Yes, both can be driven hard and fast, but only one of the two are any fun in bed.
nice………..yes i agree wholeheartedly with that!
btw, i was the screwup that forgot to logon and then commented….lol….and one thing i forgot was that if you dont have handcuffs and you are like me….you always have chains(ergo my nickname)
-chains
many of us have chains on just about every paice of clothing we own,….least I do anyways,…but still its all part of improvising…..thou i must ad i genrally cant use my belt to offten …..to may spikes in it and it wouldn’t be all that effective when used to lashing ppl down or up “impish snicker” in those times
@maestro wrote:
common sense tells every guy that skin can heal but scratches in the paint are forever, so find me only one who would apply the scratchy rope to the car in the event that transportation and female fixation must happen at the same time.
Ahh sweet stereotypes… in the event that I must ask a guy I shall let you know, however when one has wheels as nice as my own one would not lash anything to the car, not even a gorgeous sky-clad woman. On the other hand, with something like what you prolly drive, I would assume it’s not as nice as what you drive in bed (only my car could compete on that level), so I wouldn’t see the sense in using my expensive silken rope… besides, tho smooth rope is bought for use on cars, there is only one usage of Kinbaku rope, and I wouldn’t waste it on my car.
@maestro wrote:
Sometimes you women just dont see your place in our ranking system hun – of course we care most for the wellbeing of the item we plan to keep the longest 😉
Mmm more stereotypes, as you assume that as a
woman I must be superior in morals and relationship stability. Note here that my buffet has a variety of items on a rather regular basis, and your plate has the same item every night… now mind you that plate has a very expensive dish, but I rather vary my dining experiences, so to speak….. whilst my car doesn’t change, at least not until I get bored with it. You see, to me, a relationship is much higher maintainance than a car, and a helluva lot more trouble. So I deleted the annoying part and still manage to get the more fun aspects of it sans whining bleeding-heart emotional crap.
I would marry my car first, and even convince it to get into BDSM with me, before I get stuck with a one-dish dinner plate…. it would take a damn expensive dinner to do that. LOL
@Lady_DeMornay wrote:
it would take a damn expensive dinner to do that.
Well, i left the tasty fast food path for it so you can trust me there 😉
Speaking of which, there is one main problem in beeing a single and not able to cook
As for the car thing: You call that wannabe classic, Detroit’s lame excuse for not having built anything with decent style in the last 15 years a car? Anyone remembering the good times of american street cruisers this car desperately tries to remind one of would use this wheeled box just to ferry spare parts for their real automobile.
The piece of art turned into metal that is my VW Scirocco II regularly places a big shadow in the lines of Guigaro design (yah, the guy who also designed the DeLorean) and german engineering masterhood over any PT cruiser a traffic light gives the honour of stopping next and accellerating behind us 😛
Mmmm I love the heat of the moment. That is when you really find out what your prey is made of. Plus it can be fun just grabbing what’s on hand at the moment. I once used english ivy vines to subdue my toy. It worked excellent! Try it sometime. 8)
Iy vines you say…..many times Have i had “inoccent ” walks along various wooded water fronts, and never had the thought of using dear old mother nature as a means to restrain those with whom I might enjoy a bit of play with in these moments it wasn’t so much about what was being done but where. theres always that little bit of added excitment of being caught “playing in glass elevators” but then again most the time the only thing viney around was a black bury bush or two, and I honestly dont forsee me using that in the fucture…but hey one never knows, what new definitions one might add to the word SIN…”impish little laugh”
anything with silk is always a fun restrained.
