Men - makes you think....
Zitat von lovewithdiamonds am 8 April, 2006, 0847 Uhrmen...
(I know everyone has prolly heard this.... but one of my friends sent it to me - going through a tough break up....and it really made me think - so I wanted to share it....)
[align=left]If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you
find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating
you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important >than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing
less.
Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat onyou.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the >bending...compromise is a two way street.You need time to heal between >relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he
takes it for granted.Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything
that you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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men...
(I know everyone has prolly heard this.... but one of my friends sent it to me - going through a tough break up....and it really made me think - so I wanted to share it....)
[align=left]If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you
find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating
you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important >than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing
less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat onyou.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the >bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between >relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he
takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything
that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Zitat von maestro am 8 April, 2006, 0918 UhrThere is a pretty similar list for all the evil women can bring upon us males
But to make it short: " They're unworthy bitches stealing your money, taking your beer away and fucking your friends, don't trust them "
And if any woman feels males get her pregnant on purpose, think a moment about how long they'd pay for ten minutes of doubious fun just because someone told you the pill would be safe 🙄
There is a pretty similar list for all the evil women can bring upon us males
But to make it short: " They're unworthy bitches stealing your money, taking your beer away and fucking your friends, don't trust them "
And if any woman feels males get her pregnant on purpose, think a moment about how long they'd pay for ten minutes of doubious fun just because someone told you the pill would be safe 🙄
Zitat von lovewithdiamonds am 9 April, 2006, 0121 Uhrfair enough - but as the list said....
'not all men are dogs'....
So surely not all women are bitches?
or is this the time in my life where I realise i was meant to be asexual.... or to put it another way....should my sexual preference be 'NO'....?
Bit disillusioned with men, I wont lie....hoping it will pass though....I like girls, but not enough to switch to the other side permanently...
fair enough - but as the list said....
'not all men are dogs'....
So surely not all women are bitches?
or is this the time in my life where I realise i was meant to be asexual.... or to put it another way....should my sexual preference be 'NO'....?
Bit disillusioned with men, I wont lie....hoping it will pass though....I like girls, but not enough to switch to the other side permanently...
Zitat von maestro am 9 April, 2006, 1250 Uhr@LoveWithDiamonds wrote:
Bit disillusioned with men, I wont lie....hoping it will pass though....I like girls, but not enough to switch to the other side permanently...
Which would also be a tragedy
The point is, viewing my current rl 'extended network' it seems like it's perfectly ok for any woman to switch even boyfriends (not 'guys') 4 times a month without beeing even remotely considered as a slut, while men are considered to be 'heartbreakers' as soon as they have a one night stand.
I won't hang myself far out of the window if i judge this to be a result of such crap as 'sex and the city' where metrosexuality is depicted as ok as long as you have no penis between your legs: As a male of course you have to stop fucking around the moment some deluded and really frustrated mid age woman thinks she's in love with you.Bit of advice for women: since men are incapable of hearing the 'boo'ing female crowd in front of the imaginary tv screen showing your life DO NOT expect guys to handle you any different than you handle guys, bitches
We neither are, nor are we supposed to be more trustworthy than you, so everyone gets what they deserve i guess.
@LoveWithDiamonds wrote:
Bit disillusioned with men, I wont lie....hoping it will pass though....I like girls, but not enough to switch to the other side permanently...
Which would also be a tragedy
The point is, viewing my current rl 'extended network' it seems like it's perfectly ok for any woman to switch even boyfriends (not 'guys') 4 times a month without beeing even remotely considered as a slut, while men are considered to be 'heartbreakers' as soon as they have a one night stand.
I won't hang myself far out of the window if i judge this to be a result of such crap as 'sex and the city' where metrosexuality is depicted as ok as long as you have no penis between your legs: As a male of course you have to stop fucking around the moment some deluded and really frustrated mid age woman thinks she's in love with you.
Bit of advice for women: since men are incapable of hearing the 'boo'ing female crowd in front of the imaginary tv screen showing your life DO NOT expect guys to handle you any different than you handle guys, bitches
We neither are, nor are we supposed to be more trustworthy than you, so everyone gets what they deserve i guess.
Zitat von honey_muffin_demon am 9 April, 2006, 1410 Uhr"fair enough - but as the list said....
'not all men are dogs'....
So surely not all women are bitches? "
True, true. But still. Some of those are pretty harsh.
"fair enough - but as the list said....
'not all men are dogs'....
So surely not all women are bitches? "
True, true. But still. Some of those are pretty harsh.
Zitat von lovewithdiamonds am 9 April, 2006, 1515 Uhrthe whole double standard....think it applies differently depending on who's looking at it....and who its being applied to....over here....women are considered the whores...and men the studs if they have more than one sexual partner.....but yeah.....
what would i know - apparently i know nothing about love/relationships....so yeah....
the whole double standard....think it applies differently depending on who's looking at it....and who its being applied to....over here....women are considered the whores...and men the studs if they have more than one sexual partner.....but yeah.....
what would i know - apparently i know nothing about love/relationships....so yeah....
Zitat von mybloodymartianluv am 12 April, 2006, 0245 UhrDamn, never thought I'd be the one to sound
romantic , but I do have news; Love seeks not to change,
nor control . If you feel you " must change someone",then you already know the answer to the question.
To save yourselves from some damage,
get to watch, ask around, get to know the
person. It is said, that within seconds,or even less, both souls already can tell,
if they will allow themselves around one another.
There is nothing wrong with looking for the temporarykind of "love", as long as you both,
remember it is not meant to last forever.
As for me , I get wichever I wish.
The three hour and a half,The three months and a half...
Real one, well , I guess those unfold themselves
until it is quiet evident.
It means I love you, and all your baggage,
and you love me.... too.Shit, now I need to expose myself to some
senseless violence, preferably with some bondage.
Get me back to normal.... 😈
Damn, never thought I'd be the one to sound
romantic , but I do have news; Love seeks not to change,
nor control . If you feel you " must change someone",
then you already know the answer to the question.
To save yourselves from some damage,
get to watch, ask around, get to know the
person. It is said, that within seconds,
or even less, both souls already can tell,
if they will allow themselves around one another.
There is nothing wrong with looking for the temporary
kind of "love", as long as you both,
remember it is not meant to last forever.
As for me , I get wichever I wish.
The three hour and a half,
The three months and a half...
Real one, well , I guess those unfold themselves
until it is quiet evident.
It means I love you, and all your baggage,
and you love me.... too.
Shit, now I need to expose myself to some
senseless violence, preferably with some bondage.
Get me back to normal.... 😈
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